This blog is designed to help us, the codependent, to rid ourselves of the unhealthy relationships that we invite into our lives. By sharing our views and stories we hope to help ourselves and others to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships.

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Latest Blog Posts for the wrong side of love

  • What dreams may come
    on Nov 8, 2011
    Where do I go from here, and what dreams do I dream now?  One more week till I catch that flight home. At this point I'm trying to sort everything out.  I'm glad I've learned about narcissism, but does it make things easier to deal with? Ye...
  • Beyond the Tears
    on Nov 5, 2011
       I digress. In an earlier post I called my live in a control freak. Well, he's not a control freak, he's a Narcissist which causes him to become a control freak. After reading the words of Richard Skerritt  (see my earlier post) ...
  • Meaning from Madness
    on Nov 4, 2011
       This is an excerpt I found from an add promoting books about codependence written by Richard Skerritt. I loved it because it made me feel like I wasn't the damaged one. I may not be codependent after all, but merely a victim. Wahoo!! Rea...
  • Comes the Dawn
    on Nov 2, 2011
    Here is a poem I found on another blog that I found to be quite fitting, helpful, and beautifully written.  Thank you Veronica. Enjoy!           After a while you learn the subtle difference    &...
  • Change of heart
    on Nov 1, 2011
    Yes!  I made it through the weekend! In my last post I had mentioned that I was surprised that my control freak had not started trying to make amends.  Well it happened, but just a little later than expected. Saturday was hell but...
  • How do I make it till Thursday
    on Oct 29, 2011
    Yes, Thursday is the day that I leave to go back home. And yes, he knows I'm leaving. He has to know, he's the only person I know here and he has to bring me to the airport. I was thinking that things might be a little easier, or should I say I was h...
  • To have but not to hold
    on Oct 28, 2011
    So this is where things stand nowadays. First let me back track a little. Before I moved here my so called lover or live in called me consistently every chance he could get including his breaks from work. He also sent me many e-mail/ facebook message...
  • Addicted to the addict
    on Oct 27, 2011
    I agree with the truth post. Everyday I wonder why I continue to care. He is sooo not right for me! Have you ever been with someone in the past that you would have given your left arm for, thought that they hung the moon and were the sexiest thi...
  • The Truth
    on Oct 21, 2011
    OK, so let's face the real facts. No more excuses. Your with a dependent man because you feel like your evening out the stakes. You, for some reason feel unlovable, so if your with this brilliant yet misunderstood and damaged man It makes you feel wo...
  • Codependent from the inside
    on Oct 21, 2011
    I don't think every codependent fits into this category.  In my case, growing up I never dealt with an alcoholic, mentally abusive, physically abusive, or drug abusing parent or family member. When I meet and start to have feelings for a ma...
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