Hate Mail
on Nov 15, 2009 in Homophobia Hate mail After my recent post "The Abomination of Humanity" that dealt with the hate mail I receive on a regular basis I decided to publish some of these mails on my blog. The normal "burn in hell" and "fuck you faggot" mails I decided to ignore, and rather o...

Am I a Stepford Fag?
on Nov 11, 2009 in Gay Men Gay Marriage Gay Community Life GLBT Ageing Relationships Gay Club Having had the last couple of months fly past so many things have changed in my life. This year the process of changing jobs, buying a new house and now trying to sell our current home, my now relentless work schedule and numerous other events has le...

The Abomination of Humanity
on Nov 3, 2009 in Gay Community Discrimination Homophobia Activism Religion Intolerance GLBT Ignorance Hate mail Since I started this blog I have addressed some contentious issues. Some topics caused quite a stir especially amongst a few fanatical Christians. Dealing with Homophobia, Discrimination, AIDS, Racism and even how we as a gay community discriminate a...

Horror, Weirdos & Fagalicious Homos
on Oct 28, 2009It’s time for Halloween. All the witches, fairies, superheroes and dead icons of the past will come out of the closet and gush into the nightclubs and streets to celebrate this dress up party. Not having attended a Halloween party in a while I am p...

WHAT THE F..! No wonder I am a bitch.
on Oct 21, 2009They say bad things happen in threes. Well, I am starting to believe I am not the exception to the rule but rather I am setting a new standard for it. In one day my week has been ruined, communications failed and I am for all practical reasons strand...

Gay Witch Hunts – Uganda Hates Us!
on Oct 17, 2009Who would have thought that in this day and age real life witch hunts could still occur? Living in a country where homosexuality is legal and gay marriage has been made possible, I sometimes forget how fortunate I am, and sometimes I can be oblivious...

Drugs, Lies & A Videotape
on Oct 16, 2009The soap opera trial got even more controversial this week. The star witness seemingly has a failing memory; flip-flopping between versions of events that favors the state and then the defense’s case. Just as things seemed as they could not become...

Spy Bosses, Drug Trafficking, Money Laundering, Murder & Blackmail.
on Oct 10, 2009One of the most anticipated and controversial trails in South Africa got underway this week and I just happen to be part of it. The trail involves an alleged international Mafia Boss and convicted Drug Dealer as the star witness and the once most pow...

High Drama!
on Oct 8, 2009Early mornings and late nights are really starting to take its toll and this is not even the end of week one of all the high drama in court. Having this case being plastered all over the news media, I have not made it through it unscathed. Having mad...

Court Drama!
on Oct 6, 2009Have you ever been in the middle of one of the Top 10 most controversial court cases in your country? Now going through precisely that experience I can honestly say it isn't any fun.Having my working day start at 4:15am every morning and ending any t...