My fiance's temper is freaking me out
on Nov 20, 2009Hello, hoping you can help. I’m engaged, but I think I’m getting cold feet due to my fiance’s temper. It has become worse over the years (or he’s just less able to control it). He has extreme road rage towards other drivers whenever we’re i...

My boyfriend won't leave his man cave...
on Nov 17, 2009I just moved in with my boyfriend. It’s all good, apart from one little thing. After work, I’m always happy to see him and want to chat over a bottle of wine while we cook together. But I’m lucky to get a grunt before he grabs a beer and goes i...

Two years in, still haven't met his kids...
on Nov 13, 2009I’m in my 40’s, divorced and met a new guy, also divorced, online two years ago and struck up a love match. I don’t have any kids, but he has three in their 20s from his previous marriage and has remained friends with his ex wife. They gather a...

Wife wears too much make-up
on Nov 8, 2009Why oh why do women feel the need to wear so much make-up? My wife used to be moderate about it but ever since she turned 40 it’s beyond extreme; she applies it before I even wake up half the time and even in BED I think she’s got it on. I think...

In love with my gay best friend... help!
on Nov 3, 2009Reality chick, I am completely in love with my gay best friend. He's a guy, I'm a girl. No-one comes close to him, he's funny, sweet, handsome, smart and yes, loves cock. To make matters worse he is completely in love with his first gay love and like...

No honeymoon... should I step in?
on Nov 2, 2009Heeeelp! I've singlehandedly planned my wedding but agreed to leave the honeymoon arrangements to my hubby to be. Trouble is, it's two months to go until D day and while we've settled on the destination (Thailand) he hasn't even booked the flights or...

Should I talk babies with my new man?
on Oct 30, 2009I'm 38, desperate for a baby and have been looking into doing it on my own for quite some time. But, here's the snag - I've just met a great new guy. We're 3 months in, and my clock is still ticking. Should I tell him my desire to start a family soon...

Too shy around hot guys - help!
on Oct 20, 2009Dear Reality Chick, Would you spare any practical piece of advice for someone in their thirties who is very very awkward around hot guys? If the setting is already familiar things are smoother, but in general the more I like a guy and the less I know...

Do I have a future with this guy?
on Oct 19, 2009Dear Reality Chick, I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years, he is a wonderful guy and I am still very much in love with him, we have fun together and he is super nice to me. However I worry that there is no future for the two of us, everyday I t...

Panic stations
on Oct 14, 2009Dear Reality Chick, I'm meant to be going away to meet a guy I've known for a while; not very well, but still. It's a get-to-know you weekend, after I spent years rejecting his advances. I finally caved in and we went on a date when I was visiting hi...