Numb
on Nov 7, 2009 in ex-boyfriend bad ex-boyfriend disappointed numb In response to a friend's, "How are you?" earlier in the week, I responded, "Numb".  I know I meant it at the time.  Completely.  But it's taken me until today to figure out exactly what I meant by it (I'm slow like that). This is hard for me to w...

My 5 Best Curl Up on the Sofa Date Movies
on Nov 6, 2009 in list nerve.com askmen best date movies First, some stuff:  1) pretty recently I saw a post on best date movies.  I can't remember where. I forgot to bookmark it and this morning when I googled it I came up with these old posts from Nerve.com and AskMen but that's not the one that made m...

Speaking of Spats
on Nov 5, 2009 in fight Yourtango Costanzas spatsolver As I mentioned earlier today, I have a bad habit of not telling guys when I'm pissed off.  It's something I've been working on, but I still I have a long ways to go. Anyway, I saw this video and laughed my ass off.  But then I thought, wow, I can't...

The Last to Know
on Nov 5, 2009 in fight married LTR last to know As I'm sure I've mentioned, I do actually have friends who are in happy, healthy, relaitonships - married and otherwise.  Not too long ago I got a call from one of them.  My friend was uber-stressed out about some issues at home and wanted to vent...

Etiquette in the Digital Age - The Poll
on Nov 4, 2009 in dating texting nerve.com So many of you told me (here, on Twitter, via email...) that Monday's post, Etiquette in the Digital Age, should have been a poll that I felt I had no choice but to go with it.  Sorry if this seems like rehashing the same thing, over and over.  But...

My Trip to the Lady Doctor
on Nov 3, 2009 in condoms ob/gyn pap smear the pill pregnant women are smug judgmental So last week I went in for my annual tune up aka my annual pap smear.  This year was different because I was seeing a new ob/gyn for the first time in ages. Now, first I should say that I didn't actually go out of my way to make this appointment. ...

Etiquette in the Digital Age
on Nov 2, 2009 in etiquette texting nerve.com Regular readers have heard me rant and rave about how much I hate it when a guy relies on texts as his main means of communication with me.  If I give a guy my phone number it means I want him to call me. And if we're seeing each other on a regular...

Innocent Bystanders
on Nov 2, 2009 in Twitter blog dating Mental Health I know I've said this many times before, but I really love Twitter.  Yesterday I had breakfast with one of my newer Twitter friends, PassionMD, who is seriously one of the sweetest men in NYC. We had a great chat about a dozen different things and,...

Someone Else Will
on Nov 1, 2009 in A Guy's Story This week's Guy's Story is from my Twitter friend The Luvologist. Today is Sunday and that means it's time for another Guy's Story.  Every Sunday I have posts from male guest authors. Someone Else Will This weekend I was playing poker with a few peo...

For One Month Only...
on Oct 31, 2009 in leftos So I'm trying something new (another new thing).  What can I say, I like to try new things. For the month of November I'm going to be spending some time over at Leftos.com.  Leftos stands for Lessons for the opposite sex and the site is a "free ser...