Belle de Jour, anonymous no more
on Nov 15, 2009 in Blogs and Internet Part of my original inspiration for becoming a blogger was the infamous blog Belle de Jour, the Diary of a London Call Girl. I hadn't heard of her when she stopped blogging back in September 2004, however a couple of days afterwards I spotted an art...

Noisy sex
on Nov 12, 2009 in Misc When I read this BBC news article a couple of days ago, I burst out laughing. Although it's about straight sex, I still think it's worth posting here. Basically, a straight couple called Caroline and Steve Cartwright have been banned from making lo...

The man with more than two nipples
on Nov 9, 2009 in Gay Life I was playing a quiz game with a few friends one evening last week, and the answer to one of the questions turns out to be the old James Bond film 'The man with the golden gun'. "The man with the golden gun was also the man with three nipples, wasn't...

Black tie
on Nov 5, 2009 in Encounters Earlier this year, I'm chatting to a guy on gaydar, and I'm thinking about visiting him for some fun. We've exchanged pics and he said that he thought that I was very handsome :-). From my point of view, I think that he's got a great profile too.

Categories of 'Dear GB' emails
on Nov 2, 2009 in Dear GB It's been three years since I posted my first "Dear GB" email and started trying to give advice to readers who asked for it. Since then I've done over 100 of those posts! At this stage, I think it would be useful to try and categorise all the posti...

Email from a young gay banker in Asia
on Oct 29, 2009 in Dear GB Towards the end of last month, I got the following email from one of my Asian readers:HiHave been a great fan of your blog from Hong Kong. Actually I've encountered two problems and thinking if you could give me some advice... A few brief facts about...

The big penis book
on Oct 26, 2009 in Holidays Last weekend, I'd originally planned to work on a posting for the one remaining advice request that's been waiting patiently in my "Dear GB" queue on this blog's right-hand side-bar since the end of last month. However, in the end, the whole weekend...

A quiet evening with boyfriend T
on Oct 22, 2009 in Gay Life One evening last week, I'm cuddling up on the sofa with boyfriend T watching some TV, when suddenly he asks me a question."My shoulders have been quite stiff recently," he says, "do you think a massage would help?""Yes probably," I reply. "Do you wan...

Email from an out gay guy who works for a bank
on Oct 19, 2009 in Dear GB Just under 4 weeks ago, I got an email about the prejudices that straight guys can have about working with gay guys. The email was as follows:Dear GB,I've been following your blog for quite a while, which I think is very useful and entertaining at...

A visit to my gorgeous Japanese masseur
on Oct 15, 2009 in Gay Life Very long time readers of this blog may recall B, my gorgeous Japanese masseur, who I used to visit regularly for massage and sometimes other activities. I still sometimes visit him for massage, but since he goes back home to Japan very regularly,...