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• 'Twas The Middle Child Tuesday Before Christmas
  on Dec 21, 2010
  My how time flies...another Christmas turned up as I blinked my tired eyes (yeah, I'm a poet AND I know it..) Personally, I find Christmas to be far less jolly than it is made out to be. Unlike my childhood merriment over Santa's Christmas Eve visit...
• Most People Are Not Soul Suckers
  on Dec 15, 2010 in Health Butterfly effect Energy Chaos theory
  Most people give and take equally.  Most people are conscientious, balanced, and are nice to be around. Most people do not feed off of the souls of others.  But in my personal experience, the handful of people who classify as "ene...
• Part 5: A Mounting Mountain Of Mental Clutter
  on Dec 12, 2010 in widow coping Dreams Legacy Memoir Inattention Psychology Metal Clutter Funeral trauma marriage
  Image via Wikipedia It has taken me a while to get around to my next entry, which for various reasons I put off.  As I mentioned in part one of this series, I have never written about Roman’s death and betrayal at length, so now that I am get...
• Part 4: Later That Night
  on Dec 1, 2010 in Sadness coping heartbreak memorial organ donation sudden loss grief trauma widow tissue donation death shock bereavement
  On the way home from Roman’s mother’s house, the flood gates opened for the first of many times to come.  Sobs went streaming down my face with such ferocity that I could barely see the road ahead of me.  As I drove, my cluttered mind r...
• A Sharp U-Turn Onto The Highroad Of Wifedom Causes Emotional Whiplash
  on Nov 25, 2010 in widow infidelity coping memorial death shock grief separation trauma marriage betrayal bereavement
  After the police cleared the scene the night of his death, Roman's mom, brother and I headed back to the house nearby.  Steadily over the next hour or so, Roman's other siblings and in-laws also filtered in.  Roman had successfull...
• Sometimes Icky Feelings Are Hilarious
  on Nov 25, 2010 in humour Flight of the Conchords coping humor keeping it real Bret McKenzie Kristen Schaal Jemaine Clement
  No matter what happens in life, you've got to keep your sense of humor...and Flight of the Conchords rock at reminding us not to take ourselves so freakin' serious! For those of you who prefer more spice, it also comes in a Spanish flavor.. Nex...
• That's Some Dream...
  on Nov 21, 2010 in dreams coping death life
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• Background Bits Needed For Later Parts
  on Nov 21, 2010 in coping memorial death sudden loss grief marriage
  Before I go into further detail about the evening that Roman died, and before I share about subsequent events surrounding his memorial, I think it would help readers if I back up briefly and tell a little bit about Roman’s history and character, an...
• In The Meantime
  on Nov 17, 2010 in coping memorial grief The Oatmeal
  Recently I received a message from a reader who said that my story moved him in a way that it felt like he had been staring into the sun after he finished reading.  An interesting analogy, I think, as living it had a similar effect.  Likewi...
• Grief Part 3: Denial, Shock, Heartbreak, Confusion, and Ambivalent Acceptance of Responsibility
  on Nov 6, 2010
  Four years ago today, Monday November 6th 2006, started out on an upswing.  My heart was at ease from the conversation I'd had with Roman the day before, my apartment was now my own, free of all blatant reminders of his previous existence there,...

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